“I have been blessed by the sugar gods.”Ĭassie, who is a healthcare social worker, said she became a sugar baby not only for the money but also because it was “a lower time commitment” than an unpaid relationship. “I was not actively searching for but found one by complete random chance,” Cassie told me. I expected nothing other than maybe a lockdown texting buddy.” They were soon texting all the time, and Jessica asked her to be her sugar baby. They found each other on a discussion forum (the name of which they wanted to keep secret) after Jessica posted that she was “feeling lonely at the prospect of a lockdown,” Cassie said. Jessica didn’t meet her most recent sugar baby, Cassie, until last March. “Rinsing” is lingo in the sugar world for when a sugar baby implies there will be a sexual relationship but never follows through. “ emotionally manipulating me which eventually led to her rinsing me,” she said. She had two short-lived relationships with women she found through, but, she said, “both basically treated like an ATM.” One watched the clock during their dates. Usually, she said, sugar mamas and babies hash out the details before any sex takes place, including a price per meeting or allowance, negative STD results, safe sex protocols, and communication methods, such as the frequency of texts, FaceTime calls, and phone calls. Jessica, who lives in a Midwestern city, was drawn to the “fuss-free physical relationship” of sugaring. I could therefore pick any SB I want from the many who are interested to be with me.” “Many female are fluid in their sexuality these days and would sometimes prefer having a over a as a safer option. With the vanilla matches, they would ask to meet on weekdays when I would be busy with work and would get upset or blow up my phone with text messages when I would decline to meet up.” She paid $90 to create a profile and was quickly impressed by the results. “I work upwards of 50 hours a week and would only be able to meet on weekends. “Two things I was looking for in potential partners could not be met with these - communication and boundaries,” she told me about women she met on dating apps in an interview in early February. Fed up with dating apps like Her and Tinder, Jessica, a manager for a tech company in her mid-thirties, decided to make a profile on (now ), a website for people looking for sugar babies.
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